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The desire to be respected by someone of the opposite sex is something that runs deep within everyone, even though most people don’t take the time to find someone who truly respects them. It seems like people are just looking for someone to show them the slightest amount of attention, settling for something much less than respect.

I am convinced one of the best ways to help any relationship grow is by showing respect. I want to continue the list I started last week on how a guy shows respect to a girl. (Thanks for your many comments from last week. You had some great things to say.)
Here’s a recap of last week’s list of how to respect a girl:
How Does A Guy Show Respect To A Girl?

1. He talks with her in a courteous way.
2. He never tries to take advantage of her sexually.
3. He gives her time and attention.
4. He knows when to joke and when to be serious.

People are just looking for someone to show them the slightest amount of attention, settling for something much less than respect.

Lorelei had a great idea to add to #1 on the list: A way guys can show respect in a relationship is instead of calling their girlfriend hot or sexy all the time, call her beautiful and pretty. It’s a major self-confidence booster. It makes me feel more wanted on a better level than just sexual.
Let’s continue the list of how to respect a girl…

1. He doesn’t flirt with other girls. When a guy is dating a girl and he flirts with other girls, he shows her he’s not committed to her, and that she is no more special to him than all the other girls. Erin had a bad experience with a guy who did this. The guy I just broke up with, I broke up with because he flirted with other girls right in front of me…not respectful at all!
2. He points out her strengths. Let her know how amazing she is and how impressed you are by her talents and gifts. Everyone needs to be encouraged.
   

   When a guy sincerely encourages a girl, he is making an amazing impact on her life. Some people never forget a sincere and encouraging compliment.

3. He shows respect for her family and her other friends. Let’s face it. A person’s family has a huge impact on the person you are dating. To disrespect that family is to disregard one of the most vital parts of their life. Celeste said this is really important to her. If you respect her, you should also show respect to her parents, siblings etc. Even if you don’t get along with them.
   When a guy sincerely encourages a girl, he is making an amazing impact on her life.
   
4. He helps her to feel welcome and comfortable in a group of other people, especially in a group of other guys. No girl wants to look stupid or feel uncomfortable in front of other people, especially guys. Many guys have made the horrible mistake of ignoring or belittling his girlfriend in front of his buddies. This is relational sabotage.
5. He doesn’t try to manipulate or control her emotions. When a guy tries to manipulate a girl’s emotions, he’s basically telling her he doesn’t respect what you think or feel. He only wants to use you for his own selfish desires. When a guy asks a girl what she thinks or feels, listens to her, and often follows her counsel, he’s showing he has great respect for her.

   When a guy asks a girl what she thinks or feels, listens to her, and often follows her counsel, he’s showing he has great respect for her.

6. He is trustworthy. Keep your word and do what you say. LyAnn has some advice for guys: Ladies take what you say to heart. Say what you mean, and mean what you say.
7. He trusts her. You can show tremendous respect to your girlfriend by showing her you trust her. Celeste said a big way to show respect is to give her the space she wants and needs. If she says she’s going out with her friends, then she’s going out with her friends. Let her go have fun without calling her every five minutes to see what she’s doing”she’ll call you when she gets home. She doesn’t need to check in with you”you’re not her dad. That’s a good word, Celeste.

Everything in this world is a gift from God, and women are the most beautiful, precious gift of all.

I’ll leave you with a great comment I received from Jonathan who said the best way a guy can show respect to a girl is by recognizing that she is a precious creature carefully crafted by God:
Once this realization sets in most everything else will follow. Holding the door, listening, being sensitive to their needs and sensitivities, treating them like people and not sex objects, opening the car door, walking them home, listening and talking to their face and not their chest, defending them verbally and, should the need arise, physically…I could go on. Everything in this world is a gift from God, and women are the most beautiful, precious gift of all. That fact alone charges us to give them all the respect we can.
This is a young man who understands how to respect a young woman. (Way to go, Jonathan!! You’re right on the money!)
Next week, I’m going to blog about how a girl shows respect to a guy. We have had a lot of people writing about how girls like to be treated with respect. How can you show a guy the same kind of respect you are looking to be shown? Guys? What’s the best way for a girl to show you she respects you? Send me your comments and stories and I’ll add them to my list.